A Perfectly Piggy Party!

Yesterday I had the pleasure of hosting a party for a 3yr old girl who loves Peppa Pig.  As requested by L's mother, and also taking into account the young age of the children attending, the party became more craft and activity focussed.

As those who follow my blog may know, I tend to follow themes loosely rather than going for an all out theme.  This is due to costs, availability of resources and an understanding that not all guests like the same thing.  Many parents choose to use decorations to emphasise a theme, which is great as it brightens up the venue and gives the party child their focus. 

Obviously this is done in consultation with the client, who can request certain activities or games to their child or their vision of the party.  My role is to facilitate this, keep the children entertained and make sure the children enjoy themselves.  I also hope to take the pressure away from the parents.  This was reflected at the party yesterday when the client told me she had never been so relaxed before hosting a party. (Her sister also told me she'd never seen her this relaxed before a party too!)

The activities:

1) Welcome activity.  The children decorated the tablecloth with the crayons and stickers I supplied.

2) Make pig face biscuits.



3) Make pig masks using paper plates.

4) Decorate their party bags.










5) A box of Rainbow Rice (with hidden pigs) to play with.

The Games:

1) Music Muddy Puddles (like Musical Islands)

2) Peppa Pig Treasure Hunt

3) Pass the Parcel

The Story:

10 Green Bottles by Abigail Voss.  (Available here on Amazon.)  (This is a great story by a Portishead Author, and is fab for joining in and learning numbers.)


The 14 children were kept happily occupied, with supportive parents who enjoyed joining in. 

Their party tea was packed in individual coloured paper lunch bags with Peppa Pig detail on them.  I particularly liked the idea of putting individual jellies into plastic shot glasses.  (I'm going to borrow that one for my children's next party!)  

We sang Happy Birthday to L, and she blew out the candles on her beautiful chocolate Peppa Pig cake. 

Packing up was quick and efficient.  (I bring my own bin bags, and was massively helped by the other adults.)

This was a fun party to do.  Craft parties can provide a calm but busy atmosphere, and make sure that everyone has something extra to take home too.

It was a fun afternoon for all.


(Craft Parties are priced the same as regular parties, see my website for package prices.)

Loving Local Links

I've only lived in Portishead for 11 years.  I'm not a 'Posset' and I doubt I ever will be.  

However, Portishead is home.  It has beautiful views, friendly people and businesses who are supportive and wish to make links with others.  It feels great to see companies retweet my tweets (@PartyEaseP if you're interested.)

Yesterday I met with Clare from So-Sublime Stationery.  Clare and her sister share a passion for stationery, and I saw the light in Clare's eyes as she described her favourite childhood shop in Park Street, and rolls of stickers where you could pick up just a few for 5 or 10p. It reminded me of a shop where I grew up and how I used to do the same thing.  So Sublime Stationery has grown from that passion into a business where you can buy personalised notebooks for numerous occasions, and accessories to go with them.

I am now delighted to be able to announce that PartyEase Portishead has teamed up with So Sublime to offer beautiful personalised notebooks and bookmarks as an alternative to traditional party bags.  These beautiful A7 sized notebooks will come in a gift bag, with each child's name printed on the front.  The paper is of fantastic quality and the package is a gift that most boys and girls would love. 

Due to the bespoke nature of the product,  (Imagine 30 notebooks, with a different name printed on each one) I have added a new package, called PREMIUM PLUS. This will give you all the joy of a PartyEase Party, but with the added extra of having this fabulous gift, for just £175.  

There are many items for all ages on their website.  Please take a look and keep it local!

On top of this, at the moment, this is an exclusive, as these products are not yet available on the so sublime website.  (I believe they are being added this week...)

I would also like to recommend Heaven Cakes for birthday cakes.

This may be a bit of a personal recommendation.  I have know Sam for years, through our connection running North Weston Brownies, and have heard from the beginning the passion for baking, the finding of suitable premises, the cold mornings selling on Portishead Market, the opening...  Not only do they do the best pancakes with maple syrup ever, but their celebration cakes are fantastic!  I speak from personal experience, as Heaven on the Hill has made cakes for my husband's 40th birthday, a special occaision for my daughter, my dad and my uncle's 80th birthday cake and my parent's golden wedding anniversary cake. When I have made decorated cakes, Sam and Vicky have always been friendly and open with advice to help me achieve what I plan to, and knowing that I can buy decorating supplies from them too has been really convenient. Remember, that if you buy a bespoke cake, you need to pay appropriately for the HOURS that go in to creating it, and make sure you order in plenty of time.

Lastly, for Birthday presents, why not look at Flutterbies?

Hidden just off Portishead High Street, this is a fantastic shop full of quality toys (think Melissa and Doug toys) for all budgets.  My children love the wooden toys, the pick and mix sweets and the pocket money/stocking fillers there.  There is a great selection of books, many available at 2 for £5 - perfect to have in case of emergency...  Lisa who owns the shop is ready with suggestions and advice too.  An added bonus is that as Christmas approaches, you may wish to buy a bigger, more expensive toy for your son/daughter.  You are able to reserve the item and then pay in instalments, making the season easier to budget for.  (It also has the added bonus of being next door to Shanicatti Shakes who serve fantastic ice cream sundaes, milkshakes and smoothies (as well as sandwiches, tea and coffee...)

There are many great places in Portishead which are great for party items and children's gifts.  I haven't even started on the labyrinth which is Morgan and Westley...   I no longer search for items there, I just ask them if they have what I'm looking for, from coloured card to beetle drive cards (don't ask!). So far, I haven't managed to catch them out with anything paper and pen-wise they don't stock.  I'll keep trying... They have everything!!!

I'd love to know what your favourite shops are in Portishead.  Please leave a comment to let me know, and let's keep it local. 

You don't want PartyEase? Here's something to remember.

Wouldn't the world be a boring place if everyone wanted the same kind of party? Different types of party are what makes the excitement for the guests.  What games will they play?  Will there be a magician?  Will there be party bags? What will they eat?

My son is in a class with 25 other four and five year olds.  They all share a sense of excitement and enthusiasm, and a growing awareness of the importance of a birthday party at a young age.  Each invite is studied with curiosity and questions about the type of party it's going to be.

Since September, he has attended parties with magicians, a Star Wars themed party, Soft play parties, and traditional parties (one of which, was a PartyEase one...) Each party had a common denominator - SIMPLICITY.

As PARTYEASE grows, I have had some fabulous conversations with parents - those who have chosen to use our service, and those who haven't.  All parents have a common denominator too - they want their children to have a fantastic and memorable party. I'm the same.  I want my child to be smiling, genuinely happy, with a residue of excitement, but slightly tired by the end of his party.  As parents, we seem to have an impression that our children have high expectations of us and their parties, and it is important that we GET IT RIGHT!

I'm going to share a secret with you.

Parties do not need to be elaborate.  Children want to be entertained, they want to be involved, they want the opportunity to be active, but also to have a quiet space to retreat to if they need to. 

This is why PARTYEASE works.  The concept is simple, children are encouraged, but NEVER forced to join in, they are kept active, they have fun, they have a dedicated party host who works hard to build a relationship with them, and continuously interacts with them during the party.  (and keeps going until the child is collected.)

Basically, what I'm saying is that if you choose not to use PARTYEASE, remember to keep it simple, but keep the children occupied with lots of fun.

However, by the time you've thought of the food, prizes, party bags, venue, cake, tea and coffee for the parents who stay, decorating the hall, clearing up afterwards etc, the thought of keeping 30 five year olds interested might be a step too far... don't worry, I'm still here ready to help!

http://partyeaseportishead.weebly.com

rachieparties@gmail.com

A few questions and a few answers

It's been a few months since I set up PartyEase Portishead. I've been so touched by the support I've received from friends, and also from those who think it's important to support new businesses.  My brand is now becoming more known around the area, and I am getting increased traffic to my website, facebook page and to my email account. However, there are a few questions/statements I'd like to answer.

Why don't you include food and cakes in your package?

There are two reasons for this.  

Firstly, I am a mum of a 3 yr old and 5 yr old.  Our house is busy, fun and our home.  If I were to supply party food, I would need to have my premises inspected, and hygiene rated.  Now, my house is clean (most of the time) and hygienic, but we all have moments, and I don't want that responsibility.  

Secondly, party food is quite a personal choice.  I prefer a traditional type tea - sandwiches, crisps, cakes, carrot/cucumber sticks, sausage rolls, cakes, biscuits etc.  That's my choice. (and  my children's - last year, my son sat me down to write a list of what food he wanted at his party, and basically chose all of the above.)
At recent parties we've attended, party food has included a pizza delivery, fishfingers and chips, chicken nuggets and chips, a selection of nibbles including fruit and tubes of fromage frais, bowls of sweets...  People like different things.  I am happy to advise, recommend caterers, etc, but the food is your choice.

Children's parties aren't difficult...

They don't need to be difficult.  Children just want to be entertained, active and able to join in - sometimes with adult support, sometimes independently. 
But you know what?  Some people do find it difficult to be with 30 young children.  I don't find it difficult, but that's because I trained as a teacher, and have spent so much time working in child-based settings.  Put me in a hospital as a nurse, or in a garage as a mechanic - I wouldn't have a clue!  We all have our talents, and they are diverse.  It makes life interesting.
Also, we're all busy people.  I'm very fortunate in that I could choose to be at home with my children, and build my business around them.  Others make the decision to work, or do not have a choice in the matter.  All choices are valid and should be respected.  Planning a party does take time and effort.  Sourcing fun gifts, wrapping the pass the parcel, compiling the gift bags, putting together playlists... I'm here to provide a service to those who want me to.
Lastly, some parents would like to be able to take a step back, join in with their children and enjoy their day with them.  With my entertaining the children, that is possible.  You can join in, but you will be able to take time to savour the party with your child.  That's important.

Children over 8 aren't interested in large parties or party games.

Really?  I run a brownie pack, with girls aged between 7-10yrs old.  We do have the odd party night.  They love the games.  I adapt them for older children - make them a little more grown up, challenging, silly, maybe a touch more responsibility for them...  They always go home with big smiles on their faces.  
Traditional parties don't have to be large.  I can't remember having more than 10 guests at my parties (though my mother may beg to differ...) and we played plenty of games.  Although my packages start with prices for 20 children, I am happy to discuss how I can accommodate smaller parties, and will develop games suited to them, in discussion with you.

What about your prices?

I cover that in another blog post here. However, I suggest you search other entertainers, and see what they include in their packages.  You will find that my prices are very competitive.  You may also find a party package that you prefer.  That's ok.  Again, the world is diverse, what I offer suits many, but not all.  Enjoy your party! :)

I am passionate about providing quality children's parties, with transparent pricing, and a service which children and parents alike will enjoy.  I love parties, and all the reviews I've received are 5* reviews.  You can find them on my FACEBOOK page.

If you would like to find out more, then please visit my website  or feel free to contact me at rachieparties@gmail.com.

I look forward to hearing from you. 

A Frozen Pajama Party

Take 2 children celebrating their 5th birthdays.  One loves Frozen, the other would like a Pajama party.  Can a joint party be possible?

With PartyEase, it is!


So, with the brief in mind, I developed a party for 30 children, based on on the PLATINUM plan which includes a Pass the Parcel and Party Bags.
As well as generic games that all the children knew, I had the challenge of fitting a few games into the theme(s) and keeping the attention of a large number of children aged 5 or below.

Happily, this is where my experience as an infant teacher is really helpful.

The children were greeted by the door, and directed to the table, where they were given named party bags to decorate.  (These were filled later on)  I am a great believer that children need a calming activity when they arrive, as younger ones can feel intimidated by others running around waiting for activities to start.  Decorating the party bags also gives them a personal reminder of the party to take home.

The first games was one to get the party started, and one that all children were familiar with.

It was then time to for a themed game.  This one was aptly called "Do you wanna build a snowman?"  They did!  The following photos show how young children with a little adult support can work together.

Wrapping up the Birthday boy, to build a snowman

Birthday Girl becomes a beautiful Olaf

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Our next games was also Frozen based, using music and pictures of the main characters placed around the room. It gave the opportunity for the children to move around and use up some of their excited energy.

This was followed with Pass the Parcel.  It's a great way to calm the children down before their party food, and it also gives the adults a chance to put the food out on the tables without being disturbed by hungry children.  My Pass the Parcels have a prize in every layer, and for this number of children, I supplied 2 parcels.  (Many thanks to Catherine, who collected the wrapping into the bin bags, which I also supply.)

We then had a quick game where children had to match pajamas into pairs, which led them to their party tea.  

As some children finished off their tea, I engaged those who had left the table with a story, where they could join in the actions. The children joined in with the story, and it avoided that void which often happens after they eat, where they run around.

We played a couple of games that the children are familiar with from school, and finished off with Musical Bumps.  

I am sure that our Birthday children had a great time, and here are a few comments from the parents, which can be found on my FACEBOOK page.

Our son age 7 had a great time at one of Rachael's parties, he thoroughly enjoyed all the games and different activities she had planned. The music was great and she worked very hard trying to keep all the children happy and involved.
The party bags and prizes were age appropriate, good value and very popular.
If you want a stress free party with someone to run it, entertain the children, and think of little extras then you need to book Rachael.
I would highly recommend PartyEase Portishead. Thank you Rachael for a fantastic party and one happy 7 year old.

Great party today! Can't believe how well you kept so many kids entertained. My daughter said 'I wish every party could be like this!'

If you're looking for a traditional Childrens party but don't want to run the party yourself and get bogged down with all the prep beforehand with pass the parcel wrapping and party bags, I strongly recommend Rachael from PartyEase. She seamlessly ran a joint 5th birthday party for my daughter and her friend. It was a Frozen Pyjama party as both wanted different themes. Rachael specifically tailored some fantastic party games to fit with the themes and the childrens ages. She also managed to keep control of all 32 children throughout the 2 hours, all of who seemed to throughly enjoy themselves! Thank you Rachael!

The Launch

Well, after 6 weeks of talking about it, planning, gathering supplies and people, PartyEase Portishead has officially launched.

Although I have told you about a party that has already taken place, this was the biggie!  

Twenty One children joined me in the afternoon, to experience a PartyEase party.  It was daunting as their parents were asked to stay and fill in an evaluation form.  But they were all lovely and supportive, which made things easier. 

As the children arrived, I introduced myself and guided them over to the table where there were crayons and stickers, and explained it was their job to decorate the tablecloth.  This helped settle them into the party, and also avoided the running around waiting for the party to start that happens all too often.

Most of them enjoyed themselves, and before long the table was covered with hearts, rainbows, animals and many random shapes!

One parent on their evaluation said of this activity

"Great idea!"

Another commented

"Loved the tablecloth idea, all involved and no children running wild!"

Our first game was Musical Islands.  Lots of fun dancing, and less stress for the parents as I provide a basket of prizes (both edible and non-edible - another job that you don't have to do! 

A quick game of musical statues followed before sitting down to play Pass the Parcel.

Now, there were 25 layers to the Pass the Parcel. It took nearly an hour to wrap, and over 8 metres of wrapping paper. It's one of the jobs that many dislike doing because of it being so time consuming.  As one parent said "I hate wrapping pass the parcel!"

Simon Says proved a popular game.  I chose to play this as a time filler while my wonderful friends set out the party tea (which is not included in the package price - sorry.)  We played for fun, nobody was out, and the children enjoyed following regular actions as well as the more silly ones, while trying not to be caught out.

While a few children finished their tea, I kept the children calm by telling them a familiar story, and encouraging them to join in with actions.   This was mainly aimed at the younger children, but the older ones did listen and mostly join in too. 

"During the story, every eye was on Rachael."

Then it was time for the parachute games.  

I chose a selection of team games using balls, and a game of cat and mouse where the children could chase and let off steam.  This particularly appealed to the older children, and it was good to see that they took care to be gentle with the younger ones. 

We ended with a game of Musical Bumps,

Not quite the musical
bumps we expected...

before handing out the party bags.  Again, the party bag service seems very popular with the parents, who thought the £1.50 charge per bag was good value and meant another thing that parents didn't have to organise!

There were a few brilliant suggestions which I intend to implement to make the booking process smoother, and the pricing structure easier to follow. 

What did the parents conclude?  Here are a few statements from the evaluation forms.

"2 hours of stress-free entertainment!  Parents can provide food and enjoy the party as much as the children!   ...Lovely to see the children enjoying 'proper' party games and not just sat watching an entertainer."

"Rachael engaged with the children really well and kept them interested.  It was very well organised."

"Rachael was very personable and welcoming.  There was a good variety of games for the children... My boys were both entertained and had great fun.  I would recommend to friends."

"Great value - having recently been looking for a party like this, this is a great price.  ...Rachael did an amazing job of entertaining a wide range of children."

"She has the patience of a saint!"

"I would recommend PartyEase to my friends with younger children.  All of the children were kept entertained through the whole party."

"I would def. recommend especially for parents that like a traditional plarty but don't want to do it themselves."

This evening I had a message from the parent of two children who came to the party.

"Thank you for having us.  When we left the party, my two commented on what a great party it had been."

I agree - I had a fab time too!

(a big thank you to Lisa and Emma for helping me with putting out the party tea and clearing it up afterwards.  As this isn't part of the plan, it was great that they could act as party host/client for me in this way. )

Party Bags - Yes or No?

In recent years, it's become normal practise to hand out party bags to guests as they leave. In fact, it has almost become expected.  I know when I have hosted my children's parties, their friends have asked where their party bag is.  I've even handed them out to children who have attended my (and my husband's) significant age parties. (Not telling you how old -sorry!)

As part of my PARTYEASE business, I want to take the pressure off of parents in their party planning, and so offer 3 levels of party bags.  However, I like to know what people like in the bags, and their views of them.  It was quite interesting to read the comments that people left.

"I hate them!  Full of tat that clutters up the house and is rarely used!  Much prefer to give a book!"

"Why does a child who attends a party get a present?  A prize or 2 from winning a game of musical chairs should be enough and a slice of cake!  I'm old school - things are turning too American."

"I've always liked party bags.  We always had them.  I like crayons, little colouring books, little story books, sweeties, chocolate, bubbles, a ball or little toy, stationery bits and bobs.  And an all important slice of cake."

"Got to be Stickers!"

"Less is more.  I only put one small gift that they can take away and make at home, something to remember the party by.  Otherwise, it all gets too much.  I think it was Ruby Wax who made a famous joke about how in London children are upset if they don't come away from parties with at least 'a flight on concorde ticket!"

"I like to make them like I used to have them.  Little toys that are simple and good fun to play with.  Like a jumping frog or bird whistle (just add water - remember them?)  Got to have a balloonand bubbles and a piece of cake too.  The simple ones are the best."

"I like a lucky dip where the child takes a gift out of a box on the way out and is presented with a slice of birthday cake."

It was interesting to see how opinions differ.

At PARTYEASE I like to offer quality party bags.  I enjoy sourcing gifts that are fun, can be useful and are traditional.  a £2 party bag consists of 5 quality items which are suitable for most children.  However, I can easily provide a gift lucky dip option or even books (though cost will depend on the price of sourcing them.)

An example of party bag contents.  

I can be totally flexible on what you want for party bags - as my findings show, people have mixed feelings on them, which is why you may choose not to give bags, or like me, you enjoy sourcing the goods yourself. 

I would love to know what you think.

Are party bags an integral part of the party or an extra that quite frankly, you could do without?

What do you like to see in a party bag, or do you prefer an alternative?

Please feel free to comment below- it would be great to hear from you.